nbmidna:

mentally ill + autistic ppl don’t fucking owe you shit. i know nt peope don’t like to hear this, but it’s abusive and gross af to turn around and go “oh, i do all these things for you and put up w/ you, and you weren’t grateful!!1!” bc that paints the picture that we need to be “put up with” in the first place, and you deserve ass kisses for caring for us. neither of those things are true and u need to get over yourself