People are like bug pokemon. Some reach their peak at a very early age, like Butterfree. Some are late bloomers, like Venomoth. Some never change like Pinsir or Heracross, some only change when they’ve found their element, like Scyther, and some only change when exposed to new and different people, like Shelmet.
But just remember, if you ever feel like you haven’t become the person you’re supposed to be yet, you’re probably a fucking Volcarona.