please understand that when you misgender a trans person and they don’t correct you, it’s not because they are okay with the pronouns you used but because they don’t want to annoy you or seem demanding. it doesn’t mean you can continue misgensering them because they “don’t seem to mind.”
In some instances it’s even that they’re afraid of you or the reaction you’d have to them insisting on their correct pronouns
(Source: vamppeach)