kamenriderghostbusters:

One thing that legitimately upsets me on here is when people are like “OH IT’S OKAY THAT YOU’RE NB BUT WEAR THINGS LIKE YOUR BIRTH GENDER”

like…. I think you mean well, but I think you’re missing something big.

The fact that because I’m masculine in appearance, if I even step out in the feminine clothes I own I become this beacon of hatred.

The fact that I don’t feel comfortable in either masculine or feminine clothes both because of that and because, quite blunty:

I’m not a guy or a girl and just because I wear something in the binary, people are going to keep looking at me as if I’m in the gender binary when I’m not.

It’s soul crushing and while you mean well, I think you need to not generalize the whole nb community here.