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If you’re expecting a fandom tag to be your ‘safe space’ AKA fuzzy echo chamber, you’re gonna have a bad time.
Besides people love to yell at people for disagreeing with them regardless of what…
Being nice doesn’t always work.
And I don’t owe to ANYONE to be nice to them if I have to demand my rights from them.
For example, if someone refuses to use my preferred name or pronouns, that’s a personal attack on me and like hell I’m going to put up with that. The first time I’ll assume they didn’t know and be nice about it, but I have people in my life that knowingly and persistently use the wrong pronouns with me. And I’m suppose to “play nice” with them? No. They’re trash and I’ll treat them like trash.
The fact that any marginalized group even has to ask for their rights is grounds for them to take it back by whatever means.
Fuck this anti-sj “well maybe people would give you the rights they had no grounds to take away from you in the first place if you were a little nicer” mentality.
That shit is toxic and has no place anywhere.
