• Person A does something homophobic/racist/sexist/ableist.
• Person B tells them that that’s screwed up.
• Person A thinks they’re the one who is the the victim.

I just…. what. I will never understand this reasoning. Why are you so incapable of looking at yourself in the mirror and realizing that you made a mistake and owning up to it? Stop retreating into your little protective bubble and grow from your mistakes.