Jack, considering wat i know being a female who can be super feminine or really masculine sometimes, i dont think its abnormal for u to want to dress in feminine ways. i dont identify with being male, but i will enjoy being like a guy sometimes. the same should go for being male and wanting to act feminine sometimes. dont get confused with all of these labels. BE WHOEVER U WANT. the real solution here is to identify as just a Jack. who needs gender when u can just be u, as i am just a Caroline~