Erm… that’s a vague question. You mean, looks… personality…. gender? o3o;

Cause looks aren’t that big for me. And I like most ((but not all)) genders, so that leaves personality, I s'pose.

Personality-wise, I wouldn’t date someone who is pretentious, artificial, a compulsive liar, narcissistic, or most other extremely negative qualities. But those are kind of obvious?

So… I guess, trying to go a bit deeper, assuming the person is a gender I’m attracted to, these are the biggest turn offs ((and admittedly a couple are sort of looks related)).

-poor hygiene. I can’t do body odor. I just… I can’t Body hair? np. Sweat? Everyone does it. But people who don’t use deoderant or just don’t try to cover up their pheromones…. insta-no.

-someone who doesn’t listen to me. It doesn’t need to be all about me, all the time, but I expect the person I’m with to listen when I need to talk and hear what I say, even if what I say might seem silly to them. I would do the same for them. <3

-someone who gets defensive when I call them out on problematic behavior. If they make a sexist/racist/transphobic/ableist remark or do something along those lines, I want to be able to call them out so they can not do that in the future. Them getting pissy about being called out on problematic things is a huge red flag.

Those are my big 3, I s'pose.