PERSONA DANCING ALL OVER MY SOUL
"I generally just tumble around."

A follow-up to this post. I decided to word these sentiments as many fucking ways as I could. 

The story behind these? I’m entirely done putting up with my mother disrespecting me. It’s been four years since I came out; she flip-flops between ignoring my gender, treating it like a joke/game, and being annoyed that I’m “pushing my agenda and ruining everyone’s time”. One by one, I am posting these on my Facebook account for her to observe. If she tells me she doesn’t like it, I’ll start tagging her with each one. I don’t know how many ways I’ll have to word it before she comprehends this simple concept.

Feel free to reblog, even if you’re cisgender. Spread them around for others to see. If you’re trans in any way, feel free to use these as you see fit. I highly advise sending these to people who just won’t fucking let go of their transphobia. <3

My face is still heckin’ swollen… they had to remove a bit of bone with the two teeth so if anything it’ll swell even more and THEN start to chill. Until then, half of my face looks like the dude from Up.
He/They Pronouns

My face is still heckin’ swollen… they had to remove a bit of bone with the two teeth so if anything it’ll swell even more and THEN start to chill. Until then, half of my face looks like the dude from Up.

He/They Pronouns

Caution: Cute Boy @ Work

Caution: Cute Boy @ Work

The next time someone tries to tell me I can’t use singular they, I’m just going to tell that they’re right. I’m not a singular entity. I’m 10,000 bees, controlling this flesh vessel as a hive mind.

This is a really sloppy draft, but I’m about to start the process of legally changing my name. It’s a bit costly and VERY convoluted, honestly. I’m posting this because I want y’all to know that any trans bloggers ((followers or not)) can hit me up...

This is a really sloppy draft, but I’m about to start the process of legally changing my name. It’s a bit costly and VERY convoluted, honestly. I’m posting this because I want y’all to know that any trans bloggers ((followers or not)) can hit me up at any time if you want advice or help getting all the paperwork and jumping through the hoops. Like I said, I’m just now starting the process so I can tell you how it goes, as it goes. I want to be a resource to anyone going through with this step in their transition!

//internal screaming//

So me and my mom talk via email, and in my most recent reply I dropped the bomb that I’m starting the process of legally changing my name. I’m so nervous I’m literally shaking. I don’t know how she’ll react.

I took up a second job at the beginning of spring; it’s a stipend position, and in a few days I’ll be receiving that stipend. Then, I’m going to be able to start the process of something I’ve wanted to do since 10th grade.

I’m going to get my name legally changed. It’s a complicated, lengthy, and costly process to get it changed in every aspect, but I’ve wanted this for so long.

I don’t know how I’ll talk about it to my parents. They probably figure I would plan on doing this. I’m an adult now, I live alone now, and I’ve finally got enough money in savings to use this.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Happy Valentine’s Day!

I don’t know how to pick a hair color???? These were all taken within the last month and a half, because I have no self control.
They//He

IS TIME FOR GAY

IS TIME FOR GAY

He//They
Oops I’m too hot.

He//They
Oops I’m too hot.

So @jynxcomplex made me the coolest shirt in the world and I can’t get over it! The back even says “stay determined” underneath a blue heart.

justaprinceofthegalaxy:

I’ve lowered my commission prices, and have plenty of slots open!

I’m hoping to be commissioned by anyone wanting a neat-o colorful sketch of whatever character(s) they want; being disabled, queer, and in college… life is both stressful and expensive.

Prices:

Basic Sketch :: $5 ((+$3 for each additional character))

Colored Sketch :; $10 ((+$6 for each additional character))*

Colored and Shaded Sketch :: $15 ((+$8 for each additional character))

All payments must be made with PayPal, please.

Frankly, I can barely afford what I need. My work hours are very limited because I’m a student, my medications are $100 for just a month’s supply, I have a service dog and of course it costs money to take care of her- I could go on but I think I’ve made the point. Basically, finances are a huge source of stress.

Because I’m so busy, I am currently only offering sketches, but they can be lineart, colored, or shaded. I’ll put examples down below, and if you’re interested, either message me on tumblr or email me at jram1996@gmail.com.

Thank you so much to everyone who gives me business and signal boosts my services!

UPDATE: Please, PLEASE signal boost this, even if you can’t commission me. I lost my job today; I had to go to the ER and ended up missing two weeks, and they fired me for unreliability, and MIGHT hire be again in Spring quarter, but that’s three months away. I now have no income. I am given a monthly budget from my parents but it’s just not enough for medications, co-pays, therapy, groceries, taking care of my dog– I just don’t know what to do. I’m absolutely desperate and implore people to reblog this and consider commissioning me.

I’m about to head to my Calculus final, but my new shirt gives me DETERMINATION.

They//He

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