PERSONA DANCING ALL OVER MY SOUL
"I generally just tumble around."

brbjellyfishing:

futureblackpolitician:

midnight-sun-rising:

micdotcom:

Zendaya dragged a man who asked Twitter users if they would rape her in a real ‘purge’

Zendaya isn’t here for your rape “jokes” that promote violence against women. When @ogxbenson polled his followers who they would rape if the Purge were real, the Disney star immediately called him out for the disgusting question. Perhaps more shocking are the disturbing responses by men who answered @ogxbenson’s question.

This is scary. This is so scary.

^^^^^^^^^^ there’s no hope for children growing up I this world

Zendaya is the hope

(Source: mic.com)

holyromanhomo:

Can someone dox this guy?

(Source: zendayac-news)

hellokristenx:

chamelion-circuit:

amordelfriki:

prokopetz:

prokopetz:

Rape is the only crime on the books for which arguing that the temptation to commit it was too clear and obvious to resist is treated as a defence. For every other crime, we call that a confession.

I’ve gotten more angry asks about this post than I have actual reblogs.

I literally put my coffee down, stared at the screen and said “Holy shit…”

Fuck.

this is still my favorite post ever

gengarsquad:
“ plasticroyal:
“ ainslee:
“ foolishlyfall:
“ imminent-death-syndrome:
“ Excuse me but aren’t you the same bitch that molested your little sister?
”
okay but literally in his video when she’s clearly consenting, saying yes, let’s have...

gengarsquad:

plasticroyal:

ainslee:

foolishlyfall:

imminent-death-syndrome:

Excuse me but aren’t you the same bitch that molested your little sister? 

okay but literally in his video when she’s clearly consenting, saying yes, let’s have sex, he’s into it but whenever she pushes him away he completely gets up in the video and puts his shirt back on. when she pushes him away the first time he leaves her alone/sits up. he literally stops whenever she wants him to and is just saying he’s confused at what she wants: does she want him or not? (+ in a way that he isn’t even A N G R Y about it, just confused) in the video he literally doesn’t show any indication that he’s forcing/pressuring her into anything ever when it comes to the more sensual scenes.

the lyrics arent even implying anything non consensual?? infact he’s attempting to clarify.. he’s just asking what she means…

Lena needs to shut the fuck up i swear

who would have ever imagined justin bieber being less problematic than lena dunham 5 years ago

myheartbeatsforhummus:

This post is eveeeeeeeerything

(Source: neutralmilkh0e)

misandry-mermaid:

The fact that men send rape threats to women they hate and want to terrorize is further proof that rape isn’t about sex, or attraction, or short skirts, or a “loss of control”.  It’s about power, entitlement, and upholding patriarchy.

gengarsquad:
“plasticroyal:
“ainslee:
“foolishlyfall:
“imminent-death-syndrome:
“Excuse me but aren’t you the same bitch that molested your little sister?
”
okay but literally in his video when she’s clearly consenting, saying yes, let’s have sex,...

gengarsquad:

plasticroyal:

ainslee:

foolishlyfall:

imminent-death-syndrome:

Excuse me but aren’t you the same bitch that molested your little sister? 

okay but literally in his video when she’s clearly consenting, saying yes, let’s have sex, he’s into it but whenever she pushes him away he completely gets up in the video and puts his shirt back on. when she pushes him away the first time he leaves her alone/sits up. he literally stops whenever she wants him to and is just saying he’s confused at what she wants: does she want him or not? (+ in a way that he isn’t even A N G R Y about it, just confused) in the video he literally doesn’t show any indication that he’s forcing/pressuring her into anything ever when it comes to the more sensual scenes.

the lyrics arent even implying anything non consensual?? infact he’s attempting to clarify.. he’s just asking what she means…

Lena needs to shut the fuck up i swear

who would have ever imagined justin bieber being less problematic than lena dunham 5 years ago

selfcareafterrape:
“ The Basics:
What is Rape?/Types of Rape
Common Responses to Rape/Sexual Assault(ppt)
Survivors and the Doctors Office
Traumaversaries
Why You Aren’t Bad for Loving Your Abuser.
Teaching Consent
How to Talk About Trauma:
Talking...

selfcareafterrape:

The Basics:

What is Rape?/Types of Rape

Common Responses to Rape/Sexual Assault(ppt)

Survivors and the Doctors Office

Traumaversaries

Why You Aren’t Bad for Loving Your Abuser.

Teaching Consent


How to Talk About Trauma:

Talking About Trauma (ppt)

Talking About Trauma (to others)

What if they don’t believe me?

Processing New Information on Old Hurts.


Need Help With:

But How Do I Get Over It?

Sleep

Nightmares

Dreams and Trauma: Frequently Asked Questions

Surviving the Holidays (ppt)

Overstimulated Nerves

Self-Injury (ppt)

Flashbacks (ppt)

Making Peace With the Emotion Monster

On Holding Anger for Attackers

Disordered Eating, What it is and What you can do about it.

Admitting Weakness

Hygiene.

Regression

Self Invalidation

The But Series! (About various strands of Self Invalidation.)

Finding Coping Mechanisms that Work

Effective Alternative Communication



The Follower Collaborative Series:

Coping With Flashbacks


Triggers:

I’m triggered- Now What?

More On Triggers

On Purposely Triggering Yourself

Getting Over Triggers

De-triggering Abuser Names.

Reclaiming a Space


Boundaries:

Boundaries (ppt)

Boundaries 101

Boundaries: How to set them

Survivor+Survivor: Boundaries


Self-Care:

What is Self Care Anyway?

BACE Method

BACE Method (now with venn diagrams.)

Self Care When You Lack a Sense of Self

Interpersonal Self-Care

Emotional Self Care

Physical Self Care

How to Do Self Care When You Only Have A Little Bit of Time

Self Care For Cold Weather

Self Care + Trauma Work


Consent/sex:

Intimacy After Rape

Lets Talk Consent

Lets Talk Sex

Sexuality After Rape

Using Sex as Self Harm?

Teaching Consent 


Posts about Suicide:

Talking about Suicide (why we want to blame the suicidal and why we shouldn’t) 

Don’t Call Suicide Selfish

Suicidal Ideation


For Friends/Family/Partners of Survivors:

How to Help a Friend Who Has Been Raped.(ppt)

How to Help a Friend Who Has Been Through Trauma

Avoiding Awkward- How to talk about rape when we talk to survivors.(ppt)

Sometimes the easiest thing to say is the worst.

How to Listen to Trauma Stories

Being Family/Friends isn’t an excuse.

A Friend is Self Harming (ppt)

Comfort In. Complain Out.

What Can I Do?

Reality Checks

(Source: scaronhiatus)

mentalhealthexperiences:

therisingofdawn:

dirtyheathen:

renewinglaurenjane:

Do me a favor okay?
Stop trying to go back to who you were before. Before you were raped, before you got sick before an eating disorder took over your life. stop trying to be who you were five, ten, twenty years ago. Before the mental illness took over, before he died, back before your parents split or you lost your best friend.


You are NOT the same person as before. You never will be again. Give up the idolization of “before” and be who you are now. Be the you AFTER.

Thank you

no post on tumblr has ever hit me more than this whoa

I needed to hear this today

rosefire:
“ gaywitch-practisingabortion:
“ situationalstudent:
“ purplespacecats:
“ professorbutterscotch:
“ kiskolee:
“ THIS.
”
I have never thought about it in this context
that’s actually really, really creepy.
”
I… fuck.
”
Yeah, basically.
”
I...

rosefire:

gaywitch-practisingabortion:

situationalstudent:

purplespacecats:

professorbutterscotch:

kiskolee:

THIS.

I have never thought about it in this context

that’s actually really, really creepy.

I… fuck.

Yeah, basically.

I once pointed this out to my mother and she just stared at me, in stunned silence for ages. 

There will always be a girl who is less sober, less secure, with less friends walking in a darker part of town. I want her safe just as much as I want me safe.

(Source: bigfatphallusy)

(Source: rafi-dangelo)

Rape Culture: If a woman drinks alcohol and gets raped, it's partially her fault. If you don't want to get raped, you shouldn't be drinking.
Men at bars: Can I buy you a drink?
Me: No thanks.
Men at bars: What the fuck, why not? Come on. Come ON, let me buy you some alcohol. God, I was being nice. Why would you turn down my generous offer? I guess chivalry really is dead. What a bitch.

ryoshimahara:

attackoftheflapflaps:

sexy-cheese:

ryoshimahara:

I am so mad seeing Christians taking this tragedy as a “persecution” against Christians.

This is about race not religion. Stop it.

F off i hate people like you god forbid we actually address a religious problem instead of a racial one

If you actually think this is not a race issue, you should probably unfollow. In fact, please unfollow me.

I am a Christian, and I can still recognize this was a terrorist act against black people. This IS an issue of race.

I am a Christian as well and the terrorist said so himself he was killing because of race…even mentioned how blacks rape people when you are statically more likely to be killed or raped by a white male. This tragedy is an example.

You can hate me all you want but I won’t cover up racism. You can’t stop me because #blacklivesmatter.

krxs10:

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BREAKING NEWS !!!!!!!!!!!!

16-Year-Old Girl Found Dead In Fire Was ‘Sexually Assaulted & Strangled’

A promising high school student’s life cut short—killed in a crime that’s horrified the city. Now police say they’ve tracked down the two men who sexually assaulted and strangled 16-year-old Arnesha Bowers and then lit her home on fire.

Investigators say 16-year-old Arnesha Bowers knew her attackers and they used her cell phone records to track them down.

Inside a burning home, investigators found the body of 16-year-old Arnesha Bowers — bound, sexually assaulted and strangled.

“I can only imagine what the last moments of Arnesha’s life were like. It had to have been pure hell,” said Major Stanley Brandford, Baltimore Police Department. Now police say these are the two Blood Gang members who killed the teen — 23-year-old Adonay Dixon and 20-year-old John Childs.

According to court documents, Childs and Dixon were hanging out with the teen at a party when they followed her home and plotted a burglary. Investigators say Childs and Dixon broke into the home through a basement window, but were soon discovered by Bowers. 

Childs told police while he ransacked the house for money, Dixon dragged the teen into the basement. Detectives say she was strangled with an electrical cord before the house went up in flames.

Childs and Dixon are now behind bard and face multiple charges, including first-degree murder. 

SAY HER NAME : #ArneshaBowers

#BlackWomensLivesMatter

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