I am literally the worst at steady communication so if I ever don’t reply to you are take ten decades to reply, it’s not you. It’s not your fault. You are fine. You are wonderful- it really is me and my conundrum, not yours. 

Reasons I don’t reply to things or take a long time to reply to things:

-I have legitimate memory problems due to my narcolepsy. I will think I replied, or I replied to you in a dream, and then I think it’s done or don’t do it because reality, dreams, and memories blur a LOT for me and it’s very difficult to keep track of many conversation.

-I don’t know what to say; I’m very anxious and I often simply won’t reply if I feel like I have nothing of value to say. Keeping a conversation going can be difficult for me at times.

-I get sensory overload very easily, and I do not have the capacity to maintain casual relationships easily. There are two people I annoy constantly, but for everyone else I get very easily exhausted when trying to communicate with people I don’t know on a deep level. 

-I spend 90% of my time sleeping, and the other 10% being ridiculously tired because of the narcolepsy. I don’t often have the energy to reply to things, or the wakefulness to formulate a well-thought-out response.

Basically, either my narcolepsy, depression, sensitivities, or anxiety are preventing me from replying to you at this moment, but it’s not your fault. If I have a problem with someone, I don’t converse with them in the first place, or I just tell them if they try to interact with me. So I PROMISE that unless I explicitly say “I have a problem with you”, I don’t have a problem with you.