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Is Time for Rant! tw: Ableism, Transphobia

Okay, I just have to get a nice little rant out because I just walked away from a conversation with one of the most senseless people I’ve ever come across on tumblr– and that’s saying something!

Sparknotes version: Used an ableist slur, bashed on nonbinary people, and when I ended the conversation for the sake of my mental health, they said I’m the reason people don’t take nb people seriously.

Yeah. Let that sink in.

First off, I’m not really nonbinary ((I’m somewhat genderfluid but I most often am male and prefer to identify as male)), but that’s beside the point.

So let’s just mull this over: I am the reason an already harassed and mocked group of people are harassed and mocked. Mhm. Because I needed to step away from a conversation for my mental health.

And if I were to explicitly mention that I am coming out of a depressive episode and have bad depression/anxiety, they would likely further look down on me or say I’m being a “Special Snowflake”, which is a microaggression towards the neuroatypical. More ableism, yay.

But let’s not digress too far into hypotheticals.

There was one statement that really just made me walk away from that ludicrous conversation. They outright said that “Ableism does not exist”.

Yes, because people have never murdered disabled people or committed genocide on them. Because able-bodied people have never attacked or abused disabled people because they seem like an “easy target”. Because neurotypical people have never made jokes about crippling mental illnesses. Do I even need to go on?

More than anything, I’m fairly speechless right now. It’s taken me a while to type this up, because there comes a point where you hear something so ridiculous that there is just no appropriate response other than to simultaneously laugh and be furious.

So, in closing, apparently ableism does not exist, nonbinary people aren’t real, the sky is green, I have a pet unicorn, and the US has paid off the national debt.

Good golly.

Pro-tip: Be careful of user madachiha. They use ableist slurs, and are transphobic as all get out ((specifically towards nonbinary people)).

Also anyone who thinks discrimination is an opinion is just generally good to avoid, and they perfectly fit that bill!

Stay happy, my nonbinary friends. ouo

madachiha:

demigrump:

Protect nonbinary teens at all costs because literally everyone is constantly invalidating their identities or policing their gender and gender expression.

You go, nonbinary teens. Continue being majestic and wonderful and you in your gender journey.

My life does not revolve around protecting your fragile little mind from everything. 

Because acknowledging and respecting someone’s identity takes excessive energy that consumes your life???

Yeah, sure.

Get off my post and don’t reblog it if you’re going to prove why this post needs to exist in the first place.

(Source: justaprinceofthegalaxy)

Fun Fact: If you’re attracted to women but not trans women, you’re transphobic and you make me very uncomfortable.

TFW when you’re a trans dude and it’s fun to wear makeup because it’s like an art but the moment you do everyone is like “SO YOU ARE A GIRL, AREN’T YOU?!?!?! GIRLS WEAR MAKEUP AND I AM CLINGING TO MY GENDER ROLES FOR DEAR LIFE HELP ME!!!!1111!!!!!1!1!!!”

Why You All Should Be Watching/Reading Haganai

Haganai is not talked about nearly as much as it should be given that it’s a new, witty, fucking hilarious show that everyone should be watching. Like, real talk, WHERE IS THE HAGANAI FANDOM?!

Haganai: I Don’t Have Many Friends is a relatively knew series of manga based off a series of light novels that weren’t released in America at this point. An anime adaption was also made and just concluded its second season in the English dub. Volume 8 of the manga was just released in America a couple of days ago.

What is Haganai? Well, I’m shit at explaining shit, so here’s a summary stolen from Wikipedia: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haganai

“Kodaka Hasegawa, a transfer student to St. Chronica’s Academy, has found it difficult to make friends because of his mix of brown-blond hair[1] (inherited from his deceased English mother) and fierce-looking eyes that make him look like a delinquent. One day, he accidentally comes across the equally solitary and very abrasive Yozora Mikazuki as she converses with "Tomo”, her imaginary friend. Realizing that they lack social lives and skills, they decide that the best way to improve their situation is to form the Neighbors Club (隣人部 Rinjin-bu?), “an after-school club for people with no friends like themselves”.[1] Other students with various backgrounds join the club: Sena Kashiwazaki is an attractive but arrogant idol, who has no female friends, and the men around her act as slaves; Yukimura Kusunoki is a feminine underclassman who idolizes Kodaka and strives to become manly like him; Rika Shiguma is a perverted genius scientist; and Kodaka’s little sister Kobato thinks she is a vampire.[1]“

Okay, this description is a little odd and doesn’t do the series justice, but it is so good I promise.

As far as genre, Haganai is mostly straight up comedy ((better yet, a mix of many styles of comedy)), but in the second season and parts of the first season some drama is peppered in. Thankfully, though, the drama never takes itself too seriously and will stick more with being straight up funny.

I’m hardcore into this series for many reasons:

1. IT’S FUCKING HILARIOUS. I have not audibly laughed at an anime since School Rumble, when I watched it like five years ago. Haganai is hilarious. It’s a strange sort of humor that switches between slapstick, irony, anecdotal, blue humor, screwball, parodic, and even occasionally satirical! With so much going on in the humor department, there’s bound to be something you can find hilarious ((personally I found it all hilarious)).

2. The characters. The cast of characters are so strange and outlandish for a slice of life anime, and it works surprisingly well. The main trio are shockingly realistic ((for the most part)) compared to the four supporting members of the neighbors club, so there’s plenty to identify with while also just being able to appreciate the zany characters. The bio from wiki gives a good 5-second description of the members of the neighbors club ((though for some reason leaves out Maria, the club advisor)). The main trio, so to speak, are Kodaka ((the protagonist)), Yozora, and Sena. They, of course, are the most "Real” of the Neighbors’ club, and bring a lot that you can identify with, especially in the second season. I particularly like Yozora, even though she does act like a total bitch. In fact, most of the girls in this show act batshit out of their minds most of the time. AND IT’S AWESOME. They’re just so all over the place and hilarious. Yukimura is the only consistently calm one ((Along with Kodaka, more or less)), which gives a subtle juxtaposition amidst the madness of it all.

3. The antics. I love the characters, and seeing them interact is A+. Yozora and Sena’s hatred for each other is one of the highlights of the series, but also seeing everyone else handle each other is top knotch. Basically, stick a bunch of social misfits with no friends in a room and see what happens.

Yes, it’s technically a harem anime, but they never lean towards romance that much at all, honestly. As the title would suggest, the series focuses much more on friendship! Of course, the obvious irony is that the members of the Neighbors club technically become friends, but they all consider themselves being friendless with other friendless people. Most of their club activities are preparing for when they’ll have social lives, and performing warped versions of things friends do together ((go to karaoke, take a vacation, compare exam answers, play games, etc.)). They just try so hard that they get it all wrong and it’s perfect. I just cannot love on this series enough.

HOWEVER.

Every rose has it’s thorns, and there are a few precautions I gotta run by you guys, since Haganai can be hella problematic at some points. Here’s the things that you should know before watching:

1. Fan service. FAN SERVICE OUT THE WAZU. Although it’s not a drawback for me because it fits with the over the top environment of the show in my opinion, one problem some people may have is two of the characters are 13 and 10, so seeing fanservice of them can be a bit uncomfortable. Thankfully, what you see of them is very limited and they are usually left out of the sexual humor. Usually.

2. Mention of rape. This is the biggie. For the most part they stay away from this, but there are two episodes in particular where this is rampant. The episode where Rika is introduced ((Kodaka finds her passed out and she later goes on about how he could have taken advantage of her body in such a state and banters about this throughout the episode)) and the episode where they tell a round-robin story ((Yozora’s part of the story has Sena being publicly raped. Ech. I know. That caught me by surprise on my first viewing of the anime.)) Though honestly, the Rika episode is mostly tame ((but still triggering)), and you can skip the round robin episode without missing any plot whatsoever ((it’s just a filler chapter/episode)). Those are the two that stick out in my mind, and there may be a mention here or there but I think I’d remember if there were…

3. Yukimura. Yukimura is ambiguously a boy? Or a girl? He’s the center of a lot of transphobic content in the show. Yukimura identifies as male and acts as such despite looking very feminine and having a feminine voice. Yozora forces him into a maid outfit when they’re at the clubroom throughout the series, and many remarks are made that he looks like a girl and doesn’t act like a boy. As a trans guy this was a little awkward to watch at first, but I didn’t mind it that much until a certain episode in season 2 where it is confirmed that Yukimura does have a vagina ((meaning he is a trans man)). Hell yeah for a trans character, but hell no that after this, the other members of the club start calling him with she pronouns sometimes. This whole character trait is kind of a mess and poorly handled, but not bad enough to detract from the rest of the series, in my opinion.

Those are the big three, but they only show up hear and there, and aren’t too destracting. In fact, as with the round robin episode, the episode where Yukimura’s birth assignment is revealed can be skipped altogether without losing any plot, leaving you 22 good episodes to enjoy!

So there’s the gist of it. The best and worst of Haganai, hopefully without spoiling too much, and convincing you to give it a shot! ;u;

If you purposely misgender trans people, you are literal garbage and must be sent to the nearest landfill.

Burn the idea that all men have and/or want a penis.

genderpunkrock:

When a cis guy says he “doesnt date trans women” he’s really saying “i only value the girls i date because i enjoy putting my dick in them”
So i submit the idea that cis women also shouldnt date guys who wouldn’t date trans women bc he’s really only objectifying you and only valuing whats in your pants

pastelle-prince:

seriously though, list of fucking awful trends in the gay male community:

  • “sassy black woman” voice
  • t-slurs everywhere and rampant transphobia
  • talking down to women/harassing them because “it’s ok i’m gay lol”
  • transphobia towards trans men (ew, vaginas!!!)
  • misogyny towards cis women (more ew, vaginas!!!!)
  • “gay is the new black” (says white gay men)

like can we just address

(Source: pess-edgeworth)

kamenriderdickbutts:
“ eoliveson:
“ Transphobia makes me physically ill.
-fan submission This is so hateful and disgusting. It’s not like trans-people LIE about being trans. It’s not like they make it a fucking secret. All I can say is, for this...

kamenriderdickbutts:

eoliveson:

Transphobia makes me physically ill.

-fan submission This is so hateful and disgusting. It’s not like trans-people LIE about being trans. It’s not like they make it a fucking secret. All I can say is, for this trash to come out, he must really need views and attention for them dolla dolla bills. What a fucking dick.

Onision has been and will always be trash. This is just another thing to the long list of fucked up shit onision has said or done

Today I was watching a video about weddings and I got all excited because some day I’m going to get married.

But then I got really sad because I’ll be a huge disappointment and failure to my family since I plan on transitioning and marrying a beautiful woman (or maybe a man I suppose) at the altar with me wearing a suit and I feel like if my dad is still alive then he’d sooner cry than dare go to such an event.

And then I just get really miserable.

When I came out as trans* to my dad, he started crying.

When I got packages in the mail addressed to Jack, he asked me to order things under my birth name so he didn’t have to see my name when he got the mail.

And I just kind of lay here and think about how it will make my dad hurt so much for me to transition and start hormone therapy and all this stuff that I’m looking forward too so much.

And then I wonder if I should just not transition and live my life as a girl because making my dad cry is the worst feeling. Maybe it’d be better to be someone else and make my family proud than to be me because I’m not the daughter my parents expected.

And then I figure I just won’t ever get married so I never have to deal with this. I’ll just be alone forever and never get too close to anyone, because that’d be better than seeing that look on my dad’s face.

And that’s about the point where I just toss and turn all night and cry.

Anonymous asks:
ew go die tranny faggot

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA WOW SO ORIGINAL

YOU MUST HAVE SPENT DAYS WRITING THAT

As if I haven’t heard that one before.

 

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No but seriously you’re a transphobic asshole that needs to get the frickle frackle off my blog k thx bai.

This morning I was referred to as a “thing”, because apparently using my preferred pronouns is too damn hard.

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